Patrick said:
I am inclined to think you are writing more to be ostentacious and evoke contradictory responses than to make a point.
Moi, ostentacious?! Ya lol, dude, ya lol.
I'm being anything but ostentatious; and I am, in fact, making a simple point. One of the main arguments for extending marriage rights to gay couples was that respect for individual choice trumps tradition as a criterion for the state's deciding on whom to confer the benefits of marriage. If that is the operating principle, it applies just as well to incest and poligamy, so long as the arrangement in question really is the individual choice of all the parties involved (i.e. no coercion). In fact, fundamentalist Mormons or very old-fashioned Sunnis have a religious freedom argument to boot, so their claim to marriage rights is even stronger than the gays'.
Until we take the lovely principle of the primacy of choice to its logical extreme and replace binary marriage with some sort of general state-decreed guidelines for cohabitation contracts , we will merely have shifted the prejudice, not abolished it.
As for me wanting to 'evoke contradictory responses', the two I have evoked so far, yours and statlers, don't seem to particularly contradict one another. If you meant to say that I aim to animate the debate, well yeah, there's nothing more boring in life than agreement.
justin