Random question as I'm planning my next trip:
Many of the members of this forum are pretty well-versed in other countries. I've been lucky enough to spend a lot of time in Europe (particularly the Netherlands and Spain), India and a good chunk of time in Japan. I covered a lot of ground in those places and really did some exploring. However, I've been to a number of other places on business and for vacations with the girlfriend or with friends and I've come home disappointed about how little I got to explore the city/region. How do you guys do it?
When I'm by myself (I usually make time at night or early AM when friends/family or GF is sleeping), I cover tons of territory on foot with my camera. I go out day and night to the point where my feet are aching by the time I hit the pillow. However, when I'm traveling for work, I usually don't have time. Between flying in, going to work, inevitably getting dinner at the hotel restaurant and drinks at the hotel bar (sometimes I can convince them to get out of the hotel to try something new, buy most hate to leave their comfort zone), going to bed and either working or heading home the next day, business travel usually completely deprives me of the opportunity to do some exploring.
Traveling with buddies- well, you know how that goes. I have some friends who like to do a little sightseeing but it's usually about getting drunk/laid. That leaves little time to get out and look. Same with traveling with the GF. My ex did a great job of dealing with my desire to "go walk around and be a nerd with your camera," but still tired pretty quickly. And obviously if she walked around with me a little during the day it meant "her time" at night (dinner, overpriced wine, etc).
I've been dating someone for a few months and we're thinking of a cheap, 4-5 day trip in February. She wants to go someplace warm (Bahamas, Dominican or, *gag* Cancun) and I'm pretty set on Quebec City (one of my favorite places on Earth). I've done the Caribbean ad nauseum. I don't mind a tropical getaway to someplace nice, but Punta Cana, Cancun, and the Nassau area are some of my least favorite places. I'm at the point where I'm seriously considering booking Quebec and dumping her (it's not a "forever" thing, anyway... more like a convenient thing). Hey, it'll save me Christmas and Valentine's presents and getting up early to put towels down on pool chairs at our trashy all-inclusive on Punta Cana.
But how to you all do it? Do you go by yourself to these places? I'm tempted to book Quebec and go by myself, but I've never done that and am afraid I'm going to look like a complete loser. How do you make the most out of your travel experiences? There's nothing I hate more than feeling like I missed out because I didn't fill my time well enough.