Garbribre, I'd be interested in hearing a bit more about your experience in Oakland. Based on your recent posts, you seem a bit disenchanted with the place. I'm down in Palo Alto now, but I've always been an East Bay kinda guy (have family in Berkeley).
If only that sorry excuse for a university up there could get its act together (Kal Sucks...anybody? anybody??)
Da Bears!
I am an East Bay kinda guy, too.
Did not like SF. (Oh, horrors!) Tried it for about three years, after running away from NYC. Didn't feel as if I changed locale all that much. (I KNOW that is going to confound some people--you gotta live it to know it.)
Can't say I would ever want to live on the Peninsula, Marin, Napa, South Bay. (San Jose is repulsive!) I could see myself in Santa Cruz... maybe. (Some old-timers on the board who think they know my 'hippie,' slacker tendencies will understand--heheh.)
After 15 years, the East Bay is it. Or so I thought. The people here... I dunno. It's changing. Not to something I like.
Give me a New Yorker any day. (Sorry. Stereotypical Bostonians are too dour for me.
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It's very complicated--too complicated for me to go into it all here. (Plus, I hate typing.)
After eight years of Jerry (pathetic excuse for leadership), the brief optimism I felt before he took office faded rather quickly during the inauguration. Yup. That quickly. This city should have flourished and it foundered. Pockets of vibrancy exist. It has become more of a bedroom community for The City. (I think you know what I mean.) I think this has become a disparate region of 'urbs--insular cities parading as a collective, regional economic force but having no real discernible identity over each border.
Hmmmmm... does that make sense?
Oakland has become identity-less. It doesn't think that. It's deluded.
The leadership here is ... non-existent.
(Be grateful, from what I gather reading things here on AB, that Boston has some semblance of leadership, even if you disapprove of any/all of it.)
The communities that collectively encompass Oakland would all secede if they could swing it, financially, as independent entities.
Sound familiar?
I think Oakland squandered many opportunities during my tenure here.
I don't want to be around for any more of the foundering, the petty battles, or the potential collapse. I no longer think Oakland is worth it.
That may sound alarmist. Ha! It's not ... and it is.
Oakland doesn't seem to want to move ahead. Feebly, it tries to, it sputters, then fades.
However, I think it's now resigned to having its proximity to SF as its prime aspiration. Its physical place with in the region has become its saving grace, and this is sad. Also, its identity is wrapped in too many old myths, and lost, long-past, fleeting moments which defined it then, but define it no longer. This becomes all too apparrent when I hear the generalizations about how other people view the Bay Area or speak as if they know about the Bay Area and Oakland, in particular.
The whole region is becoming a faces megalopolis.
Either that, or it's Boston, or the NYC metro, or Chicago, or any metro area now, with better weather.
And, hey, a630--Am I missing something in the translation here? If kennedy doesn't read books, with expert opinions and accompanying pictures to reinforce whatever those opinions are, how else can he make an informed decision about where to live/go to school? Sure, he won't figure out squat until he spends some time inhabiting some place. However, he cannot visit or inhabit them all before he decides.
Ya?
Dive in, kennedy!
SoCal-ites ... -ers -- just sooooo defensive.
Just pokin at ya.
I DO like parts of LA.
Ummmmmm... there's...
Let me think a bit more about that....)