You are right Lucy, ugliness and density all around. I see no reason to stay in Boston in the future. It has lost what it had.
What we have now is a megaopolis from Quincy to Lynn. Nature obliterated. Spend your time endlessly in queues. Buildings that sit on the sidewalk, and the land not covered by building is smeared with tar. No matter the size of the lot/land/development, not one mature tree will survive.
It is said that density is good, brings innovation, 'growth and progress'. But we always had cities and innovation and jobs. It is just that it was much nicer and had quality of life.
Think of it. We have winter, harsh weather, no leaves on the trees 6 months of the year. We used to have history, beauty. Now we have streets tunneled by buildings, and all you ever see is a hardscape of buildings, cement, stone and tar.
Those who say 'growth and progress' are benefitting from this rampant growth and they want it to remain the same. Even the politicians benefit (campaign funds, consulting jobs, jobs for friends and family, etc).
I hope to leave. Too ugly.