The other thing I don't get is if you can afford to drop 3-5k a month in rent, why not just get a condo? It might not be as luxurious but you will be building equity which would be much smarter for the long term. As far as I can see it seems the only way it makes sense to rent in these places would be for very short term stays or if you literally are swimming in money and can just throw it away and don't want the hassle of ownership. Of course as somebody who's never been close to making that kind of an income I might be missing something here...
I feel like I spend half my time explaining to old people why I don't buy a house, so I've got my explanation for this pretty well organized:
There are a lot of reasons not to buy that are glossed over in markets where houses/condos cost $150k. In a market like Boston with very high prices, those reasons are more evident.
1) Down payment. Just because you can pay the mortgage on a $1 million place doesn't mean you have $200k today to put down on it.
2) Even if you had the $200k, putting it in a house means not putting that money in the market. When you don't have much money it doesn't make a lot of difference if all your eggs are in one basket (the house) leveraged 4:1. Its still not a lot of money. Most would call that an insane investment, but somehow it is ok as long as it is a house... People are completely irrational about the "value" of buying houses. To people who count their piggy bank in the hundreds of thousands, they usually invest more prudently.
3) If you use a very thorough rent vs. buy calculator that includes expected market return, anticipate maintenance expenses, etc you'll usually find break-even time frame is 5-7 years even at today's historically low interest rates. Careless planners and real estate agents usually quote 2-3 years.
So, to get around to answering the question - who should rent expensive apartments instead of buying expensive houses/condos?
- A person who doesn't think they want to stay in one place for more than 5-7 years. Unless there is the some emotional component to add to the equation, the facts say this should be an easy choice.
- A person/couple who expects their income to increase significantly in the near term. There is little incentive to *lock-in* your housing expenses with a 30-year mortgage if you are going to be able to afford a nicer place sooner than the 5-7 years. An example would be someone with a high paying job and moderate student debt (doctor or lawyer). Their incomes grow rapidly and when the loans are finally paid their income might jump by a couple $k per month.
- A person/couple who doesn't expect their expenses to increase with time doesn't care about locking-in a mortgage payment either. Examples: a single person or couple who doesn't have or want children. Older workers and retirees whose children are grown and financially independent